What are some fun/kinky things to do with your partner?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 08:33

Long (hour or more) marathons
Nude co-ed sauna. (Russian banya)
Sex with good friends but not lovers. Keeping the balance is tricky.
Sex swing
Short (5 minutes or less) quickies
Write your own sexy truth or dare card games.
What are 50 random facts about yourself?
Meet other couples through a Lifestyle website.
Fall asleep spooned up, coupled. Can you stay that way when you wake up?
Golden enema
Why is the covert narcissist actively avoiding me when they see me everyday?
Anal play
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Sex in a pool
Does being poor build better character than being born rich?
Play sexy truth or dare card games.
Couples massage at a spa
Golden shower
Can you turn 150 pages into a 5 minute presentation before a meeting?
Sex on a hard floor or rug rather than a soft bed
Bite hard on a tough part of you partner's body, like their heel without breaking the skin. Endorphin rush
Titty fuck
Why do untreated borderlines always blame their partners when they actually think they are normal?
Mutual masturbation
Mood lighting. Try a sega Homestar planetarium projector
Candle wax play
Mutual massage which may or may not get erotic
Take a sexy shower together. Soap makes pretty good anal lube and clean up is easy.
Temporary body paint
Sex in public
Open her up with a speculum and see what's inside. Give her a mirror or take pictures for her.
Canibalism - eat a tiny piece of each other - typically a nip of you ass cheek. This may leave a small permanent mark, but it was in love.
Hair play. (Cowgirl, brushing her long hair over his skin and face)
Hot tubs
A sexy walk in the park at night, when nobody else is around
TENS unit - electro shock
Sex on the beach
Butt slapping as hard as they can take and enjoy.
Forced hydration. Drink water during sex until you lose bladder control.
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Prostate massage.
Try different sex positions - Read and go through the Kama Sutra.
Snowball - cum inside her vagina, go down on her and suck it out, and then kiss her and shove your own spunk in her mouth.
New lingerie
“Rescue” sex - partner lets go and is about to do something dangerous but hold them back at the last second. This takes trust.
Food play (sploshing) - including washing her off in the kitchen sink.
Induce squirting with the right techniques.
Sex on the dining room table
Long distance hot video chat with mutual masturbation.
Find porn or erotica that you both like.
Pregnancy play. Ask a woman who's stopped menstruating but wishes she could have more kids whether she wants a boy or a girl just before cumming inside her.
Take a sensual shower together. Rub your soapy body all over theirs.
Scented massage oils
Sex club - watch, be watched or fully participate
Sex with other couples (or at least near them)
Outdoor sex under the real stars